Divorce is a reality today -- but let me be candid: It wasn't part of God's original plan for us, nor does He want us to go down that road if it possibly can be avoided. The Bible even says, "'I hate divorce,' says the Lord God" (Malachi 2:16).
That doesn't mean it's an unforgivable sin (for it isn't), nor does it mean God can't bring healing afterward (for He can). But it does mean we shouldn't take it casually, or enter into marriage thinking that if things get rocky, we can always bail out. God takes marriage very seriously -- and so should we. As a footnote, I wish churches did more to help young people understand the responsibilities and joys of marriage.
Why does God say He hates divorce? One reason is because He knows the heartache it causes -- and He doesn't want that to happen to us. Divorce is never easy (no matter what some say), and when two people reject each other and don't want anything more to do with each other, the results are always hard. And when children are involved, the situation is even harder.
What can you do? First, turn to Christ for the wisdom and grace you need, and commit your life and your future to Him. Then avoid constantly talking about the past with your children; that only makes things worse. In addition, trust God to work in your son's heart; he's still young, and in time he'll hopefully move beyond this.
JESUS CHRIST IS THE SAME YESTERDAY, TODAY AND FOREVER...HIS LOVE ENDURES FOREVER
3 Keys To A Happy Marriage
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JOHN 13:17 KJV
17 If ye know these things, happy are ye if ye do them.
1. Be thankful.
It all starts with attitude. If you don't stay on the positive side, failure is inevitable. You cannot have a happy marriage without happy people. Have you noticed that unthankful people are never happy?
2. Express your appreciation.
Let your spouse know by word and deed that you appreciate them. Be specific and lavish in your praise and thanks. Nothing encourages people like encouragement.
People love people who love them. If you want your spouse to love you, the best thing you can do is love them, and let them know it.
3. Aim to please.
If you make them happy, you will be happy. True happiness is never found in trying to please ourselves. Fulfillment comes from accomplishment, and the greatest accomplishment is helping someone else in their life.SAY THIS: With God's help, I will have a happy marriage.